How do Twos experience their experience?
- Emma Pearson

- 7 hours ago
- 1 min read
Twos are concerned with relationship - not simply romantic relationships but relationships in general - and there are many sorts of relationships including those with animals, with our homes, with objects. So they are very aware of what is going on in the relationship space, the dynamics of any relationship and are very sensitive to feelings - their own and others. They are 'people people'. Because they fear being unlovable they go out of their way to help people and at their best are compassionate, empathetic and selfless and their tender hearts are much needed attributes in this world. Importantly, Twos see themselves as selfless. They see themselves as loving and giving but this can cause them problems. This can lead them to deny their own needs while running themselves ragged doing things for other people and then they can become angry and resentful when they feel their good deeds are not being appreciated or reciprocated. However, Twos can sometimes over-involve themselves in the lives of others and in situations where their input is not sought. They sometimes have to learn that others do not always require their help, or at least not in the way they want to give it and that real generosity and selflessness does not give to receive. Real generosity and selflessness give without agenda.




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