Talking about Twos

Twos are the Type that is most concerned about relationship - not just romantic relationships but relationships in general. They are very sensitive to what is happening in the space between people and seek to nurture that space (whatever the relationship is). As a result they are very tuned in to the feelings of others, are naturally empathic and caring. It can, however, lead them to over-focus on others' needs at the expense of their own. Twos frequently and voluntarily take on the role of the rescuer but, when they are less present, their own denied needs can lead to resentment towards others at what they perceive as a lack of appreciation of their efforts and they can become manipulative with their affections, uncharacteristically aggressive and even end up with psychosomatic problems which means that others need to step in to rescue them. However, at their best, Twos are full of compassion, truly gifted at anticipating the needs of others and will give the last shirt off their back to help someone. It goes without saying that at a time of difficulty like the one we are living through, it is the Twos who will lead the way with loving thoughtfulness and acts of service towards those in need. And throughout this time we will need to look to the Two in each of us to access that selflessness and kindness to others, and to ourselves, to help alleviate the situation rather than making it worse. As Twos know, it is love that will get us through this.